For a few months now, I have been pondering a Bible verse that I
think has been a common quote by adults to kids. (At least, in the Christian setting.) And, I know that this verse is sometimes used as a memory verse for young kids. I will be upfront and say that this is one of the memory verses we say every night with Pumpkin after our Bible reading. The verse is Colossians 3:20. This is what I remember hearing from this verse in my previous years:
"Children obey your parents." I think that is all I ever heard whenever the verse was quoted.
Brief Side Note: Something I have learned over the years, and try very hard to practice, and be conscious of, is that context is very important in learning the Scriptures. Context is very important in understanding the Scriptures. And, I think context is very important when quoting Scriptures for the purpose of making a point. Let me also say this: while context is very important, I will be the first to admit that it doesn't always make it easier to understand, or eliminate any and all questions one might be struggling with.
The first time I looked up Colossians 3:20 to start saying it with Pumpkin, I learned something new. (And, if you are prone to judging people on their lack of Bible knowledge, here is a good opportunity for you to practice
not judging. Just a thought.) The entire verse says this: "Children obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord." (Col. 3:20, NIV)
Hmm. How had I never heard, or maybe I had heard it but it didn't stick, the
"...for this pleases the Lord" part? That puts a whole new spin on things.
I think for myself, I just assumed that the "Children obey your parents" teaching was simply just because you were the kid, they were the parents. End of story. Do what your parents say just because it is what the Bible says. Where's the motivation in that? Maybe for some folks, that is enough motivation. Maybe just because those four words are written in Scripture casts out any need to question the "why," or the desire to try and reason out how it does, or does not, apply in a situation. But I think we are missing out on something
huge if we just leave it at that.
For what purpose are we, as kids, supposed to obey our parents? Because it "pleases the Lord." Not simply because we are the kids and they are the parents. Not just because they are the authority figure that God placed over us as we grow up. It is to honor
Him - Jesus Christ; God. As I said, it puts a whole new spin on things.
When I think about how to go about instilling in my child the responsibility to obey, it seems to be a daunting task. The perception that she seems to have inherited